Guys -

Wanted to pass along another review of the newly released third edition of my ebook How To Get A Girlfriend. This one made me smile as I related a lot to this guy. Jumping through endless hoops just to come back to a simple, intelligent, balanced approach. Anyway, I’ll let him speak:

“Hi Stephen,

A.
Reading, England.”

Much obliged Mr. A - and keep me posted on how things progress for you.

Stephen Nash.

Hey guys,

Did you know that Thundercat recently ranked me as one of the top ten PUAs for 2006?

But, if you truly know me and see me regularly (he knows me - he’s a friend, but he doesn’t see me regularly), I don’t really do ‘Pick Up’ anymore.

In fact, I’m in a long-term relationship, and I haven’t even thought about picking up a girl in a couple of years, particularly since Project Hollywood in Los Angeles.

So, you might wonder then, ‘Well, how did I meet somebody?’

Well, one of the main concepts that I added to in the recently released 3rd Edition of “How To Get A Girlfriend” is the idea of LIFESTYLE and how it is critical that you approach yours with INTELLIGENCE.

As I tell my clients, either in 1 on 1 consultations or in group seminars, look around you the next time you are out socially - don’t you see couples all over the place?

And ask yourself ‘Do you think that these people came together through a cold approach or through some other method, maybe their social circle?’

I can confidently say that MOST people in successful relationships meet through their social circle.

It’s very rare for people to meet via a cold approach, which is why its so foolish to give years of your life to learning how to approach women cold if you’re looking to have an improved dating life, meet people who are actually good for you, and accommodate your lifestyle, and that you have things in common with.

Makes sense right?

What you WANT to do is GROW your LIFESTYLE so that it SUPPORTS your interest in dating women that you have a NATURAL connection with. This way, they come to YOU.

Ever hear of being the PRIZE? Well, here is exactly how you do it.

The ONLY time it makes sense to do a cold approach is:

1) To PRACTICE social skills and;
2) CARPE DIEM: If she takes your breath away and you can’t lay your head on your pillow tonight without talking to her…the carpe diem, “Dead Poets Society” Reason…

What are some strategies then for beginning the process of building your social circle?

How to approach your social circle with intelligence, so that you might learn how to grow it in such a way that it naturally invites in more and more people…relieving you of much of the ‘work’ in meeting women – sounds nice right?

Here’s what you do.

First of all, I’d like you to write down this name - John Goddard, and if you’ve read my posts before, studied my blog, or heard other podcasts, that name should sound familiar.

John Goddard was a man at the age of 15 who determined that he was going to do 127 things before he died, and he set out to do them! To date, he’s done 109…guess what…NO problems meeting women…

For our purposes, doing this exercise helps us to understand what you want to do with your free time. Many of you might be in jobs that are not terribly interesting. But what outside of that do you really want to be doing?

Have you ever even thought of that? I suggest you make YOUR Goddard list today and START doing them.

If you can really engage in those activities, you will meet other people who ALSO want to be doing those things. Suddenly you are meeting people then with whom you share something in common…

I repeat: I strongly encourage you to make a list of the things that you’d like to learn, like to do, clubs you’d like to join, events you’d like to attend. Also, become involved in your community, not by picking up girls off the street and in bars, but by learning where activities are, where venues are, where events are, clubs, classes.

The best way to meet women is to get a life!

This is the SMART way to meeting women…if you’re exhausted all of the time in trying to grow your social life, you are doing this WRONG. Do things you want to do FIRST, then meet the people who are there doing it with you.

Get engaged, get involved…be inspired by Goddard’s example.

The next step is to become the LEADER.

If you have a group of friends that you do things with, become the one who is the ringleader, the one who PLANS the activities. Set out to do certain things: take trips, take day trips, do things in your area, go to concerts, go to shows, go to new restaurants, new clubs…whatever YOU want.

Here are some MORE ideas:

Once a month go try out a new nice restaurant that you save your money for. Set up a little group of friends that you throw parties with on a regular basis, perhaps you have dinner parties at each other’s homes.

When you do that, tell the guests to bring people that no one else knows. It’s the easiest way to meet people. Or, throw a party in your house, invite ten people and tell them each to bring someone that they don’t know. PRESTO - you’ve got ten new people that you didn’t already know. This idea is GOLD…trust me.

This is intelligent because it allows your social circle to do the work for you rather than you having to be constantly meeting new people.

Now, in my client work, I do teach how to engage women in a cold approach scenario for those Carpe Diem moments. So, how to Engage, Hook and Connect with them.

These are very simple skills, and all very straight forward; I have numerous exercises that I teach guys which helps them to learn these skills. But if you already know those or feel comfortable socially all you need to do is to start meeting the right kind of people…which is VERY simple.

To recap, there are three steps, they are:

1. Get a LIFE - And I don’t mean that to insult you but what I basically mean is to get out there and get active. Get involved, do things that you like to do and you will naturally meet people that you have things in common with. (REMEMBER – John Goddard…)

2. Be a LEADER - Become the center of that social circle.

3. Be SMART - Allow your social circle to naturally bring people to you, by:

a) Organizing interesting events

b) Telling your friends that you’d like them to bring other people. Tell them you’re looking to expand your network of contacts.

And if you’re really brave,

c) Tell your friends, ‘Listen I’m looking to date, I’m looking to meet women, bring your female friends, and encourage them to bring friends too.’ - Your women friends will love to introduce you to their women friends. That’s their nature: they love seeing their friends hook up and get connected with good, cool guys.

Enjoy!

Thanks for your time guys…

SN

Guys -

Thought I would share a couple of reviews I received recently about the newest version of “How To Get A Girlfriend”. Take a look at what these guys say below:

I usually dont write on sites but I feel I must with the 3rd release
of the e-book. If anyone has spent money like me on David D, Mystery,
Alpha male etc books and dvds or are thinking it then dont!. All I can say
is buy this book as it will save you money and will also save you time as
I am now going up to women and being natural and also getting more
results as well. I am so confident now in my abilty with women that I
dont get Approach nerves etc, just walk up and say the opening that
Stephen teaches in this book and off i go ( women also say they dont
get guys speaking to them the way I do as I treat them like human
beings- NO DHV etc- this is the best product out there.

Thank you Stephen

P.
Manchester-England

And…

I (recently) read a little book called “How to Get a Girlfriend.”
Where before I never thought a girl may want to spend time with me, the
reactions I get now are phenomenal! Sometimes I need to remind myself
that it doesn’t matter if she looks unfriendly because when she meets
me she won’t want me to leave! Good job with your work, and keep the
great newsletters coming. This one here has really helped me make sense
of the past, and I feel better about myself knowing that I’m not the
only one who had it rough.

D.

I really appreciate those guys chiming in with their kind words. If you’d also like to add something (good OR bad), and have recently read the ebook, feel free to post that to this thread.

If you’d like your very own copy of the ebook, just follow the link below…

http://www.how-to-get-a-girlfriend.com/ebook

Best,
SN.

What is your Look?

How do you think people see you, when they first meet you?

What is your first impression?

Do You Even KNOW?

If not…you’ll want to seriously consider what I am about to cover with you. Don’t you think you deserve to make a strong first impression? I think you do. Read on.

I was just outside, coming back from lunch this afternoon. I made a few mental notes about the various first impressions I noticed from the sidewalk.

- First, a homeless person - so that’s a clear and very extreme first impression.

- Now we have a lovely attractive young woman without a jacket on a day when you might wear a jacket, because it’s somewhat chilly, and a Burberry scarf, pearl earrings, hair pulled back. She’s very elegant, very pretty.

- And then there’s a gentleman standing by the ATM, whose suit makes him appear to be a security guard (which he isn’t btw). His clothing doesn’t quite fit, just a little too big. His shoes are not quite polished. He has a fairly bland look, with a balding head, pounding away at his Blackberry.

(As an exercise: you might look around you and just see how it is that you respond to people based on how they are dressed…interesting, eh?)

One certainly sees everything here in New York, soup to nuts. From clear, specific, interesting personal style, as I may have described with that young lady. Everything working together - her outfit was well put together, she looks smart and elegant. Also, it worked for her body, it worked for her image.

And then the blue-suited gentleman here who frankly just fades away. There’s nothing directly interesting about how he looks, therefore I won’t remember him in five minutes time.

So, what we at CEIC like to do, and in particular when I meet with guys, is I make an instant analysis of my first impression of them. And we dive into that A LOT - we’ll talk about fashion and style; we’ll talk about what their body language communicates about them; what it is that their “vibe” is. All of these things have an impact on how it is that I feel a guy should present himself.

So the first principle I want to outline to you here, is the difference between being Physically attractive and Genetically attractive. There is a difference, and in the dating game, it is a HUGE difference.

Typically, guys who struggle with women are not Physically attractive MEANING that the things that are well within their control:

- their fashion and style sense
- how it is they choose to live their life (their lifestyle, and how it is that that impacts their vibe)
- how it is that they might choose to wear their hair
- their shoes
- etc…

All the things that are within their control - things that you can do TODAY to deal with that – are not handled, or are handled VERY poorly.

Typically, these guys struggle with women…sound familiar?

(Herein lies the global issue of autonomy, which I’ve talked about before on this blog and in podcasts too…VERY important)

There’s a difference between being genetically attractive and physically attractive. Genetically attractive person might be Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise or George Clooney, or any of these celebrities that we typically think of when we think of good-looking handsome men.

You know, genetics is something that we can’t necessarily control, at all. I mean, in this day and age, typically here in New York City on the East Side, as I look around I see many people trying to control their genetics with various surgical applications… but we won’t get into that!

Now, being physically attractive is something well within your control.

You CAN look your best.

You CAN make a good first impression.

You CAN take time out of your life to focus on fashion and style, and your look, and cultivate an image that will maximize how it is that you appear to people.

Now, our work is HARDLY about looking good and feeling terrible. Our work at CEIC is primarily about looking good and feeling great, so that what it is and how you are in front of people - your first impression and your lasting impression ring true to a guy who’s autonomous, happy, and fulfilled.

If you want great relationships with quality women, what we feel is that you’ve got to get your life in order. And one thing you can do is think outside of this box and build a look that works for you.

So, if your image is that of an average guy, this encourages you to fade away, never standing out. Now I’m not talking about showing up to work in an outrageous costume every day! But what I am talking about is finding an image that works for you, and that helps you to be seen.

So ask yourself these three questions when you’re building your look and enhancing your image…ready?

No. 1: Does it help me feel more powerful and confident?

No. 2: Will it help me achieve the aims I strive for in life?

No. 3: Does it work for my body type and personality?

Take those three questions with you as you begin to cultivate and design for yourself an image. So you might consider a certain garment, jacket, pants…

Let’s use an obvious example - If you have an office type of job, and you want to dress better at the workplace, diving into the jeans rack at the Gap might not be a wise choice. What I would suggest, in that case, is going to a good men’s store, perhaps not something that’s overpriced - here in New York we have Zara, which is great for men, particularly of my size, who are fairly thin and tall - they have great pants there.

Every major city typically has exceptional stores for clothing, mid-range stores for clothing, and then the average stores for clothing. I would stay away from the average stores, and shoot for the middle rack. You know, you’re not going to go to Saks Fifth Avenue, here in New York, if you’re not loaded with green. But you might go to Macy’s, or Zara, or you might go to good, intelligent thrift stores like Housing Works, where they often have hand-me-down’s worn by people who have great taste in clothing.

I recently found a $40 pair of Boss slacks at a thrift store which fit me perfectly that are a huge steal. They would easily retail for four or five-hundred dollars!

So, you have to think outside the box.

Here’s a couple of websites: Bluefly.com and Yoox.com, where you can buy contemporary clothing that is suited, hopefully, to your body type and color scheme, which you have to consider.

Also, here’s an exercise, and I want you to ask yourself these questions - write them down. Reread this tonight or tomorrow if you need to, and then write down the answers. And from those answers begin to try to conceptualize for yourself a new look, or at least the next step in a new look.

You’re going to be asked here to become your own image consultant because you’re not here in front of me and I obviously can not work with you directly, but I can give you something to think about.

There are eight of them…here goes:

No. 1: Go to a mirror and notice your body language. And ask yourself what does it communicate? You might even involve a friend. It could be male or female - if it’s a guy that you like to go out with, fine; if you have a female friend, fine. Ask them to help you here, because you might not be the best judge.

No. 2: What body type are you? Thin, medium build, muscular, or are you overweight? Try to keep this answer simple.

No. 3: Thumb through a men’s magazine, and ask yourself which fashion ads grab your attention and why? What about the look of the men in the picture grabs your attention? This is important in order to see what stimulates your imagination. What it is that you might begin to feel great wearing?

No. 4: Imagine a scenario where you are successful in the workplace or in your career. And ask yourself what is it that you are wearing in that image? How is your posture, what is your vibe? Are you confident and assured? Are you meek and timid? Be honest with yourself and write this down.

No. 5: Imagine a scenario where you are going out on the town with the woman of your dreams. You’re arm in arm, headed to a concert perhaps, or a show. You are both very comfortable and happy with each other. What are you wearing, how is your posture, what is your vibe? Again, is it confident and assured, meek and timid? Something else/something in-between? Write it down.

No. 6: Use your imagination to determine what type of look you picture yourself in. Is it casual? Dressed up in suits? Is it preppy? Dressed down perhaps in the latest street-wear? Consider your day-to-day life, and what image you need to project to fulfill your aims. See yourself successfully achieving these goals and notice the look you embody. That one is HUGE. If you have any impressions or images of yourself as you read this, I would encourage you to examine those and look into them and see how far you can take that.

No. 7: Consider the roles that you play daily that impact your style. Are you an executive, student, a DJ? These are common sense. If you’re stuck, think of someone whose clothes you like, someone that you think dresses stylishly and conveys the right things with their look. At the same time look at yourself and be honest. Will this work for you?

You know, I personally love the way Mick Jagger dresses, but I can’t imagine myself wearing his clothing out in my daily life. That just wouldn’t be intelligent, so you’ve got to be smart here. That’s obviously an extreme example, but I think it communicates a point.

And then lastly…

No. 8: Who do you look like? Ask yourself; do you look like Mick Jagger? Do you look like Tom Cruise? Do you look like a friend of yours? Do you have a similar body type as he? Does your hair kind of mirror each other’s in some way? Take a look at that. Examine that. See what looks good on those body types, and then maybe adapt that to your own look.

A friend of mine was recently approached by someone who said that he looked like Pierce Brosnan. This guy kept getting people coming up to him saying ‘You look like Pierce Brosnan… You remind me of Pierce Brosnan’. So, what did he do? He looked at photographs of Pierce Brosnan, and didn’t exactly mirror his style necessarily, but did take on certain looks that he wore, even in Bond films, but certainly publicity photos of him coming in and out of theatres.

He took on some of his looks, which looked GREAT.

In the CEIC Natural Attraction Program, our audio product, we have probably five exercises like this. This is just one of the five where we go through a step by step process of you working with us in developing a look and a style that actually works for you, in your environment, for your vibe and for your body type.

We take you through precise steps that you can take which will lead you to a more empowering, attractive look.

Again, we can’t control genetics necessarily, but what we can control is how we appear physically to the world based on the choices that we make. And my goal working with you is to help you make choices that are empowering, and that lead you in the direction that you really want your life to go…

Does that interest you?

Everything can help us if we pay attention to it, and if we devote ourselves to being intelligent about it. The Natural Attraction product is designed to empower you in each and every area of your life.

Every disk and skill that we cover is about empowering you socially, physically, and internally. We cover every social skill known to man, while also coaching you to develop a lifestyle, and pursuing a life that brings you happiness in every area…and also most importantly, with women and dating.

So that you can find all at our website by clicking on this link:

Natural Attraction Audio Program

You’ll be hearing from me soon…

SN.

Hey guys -

On a number of occasions recently I have found myself consulting guys on the elegant art of complimenting a woman. I thought it might make for a nice topic for the blog today.

So many guys are truly clueless when it comes to complimenting a woman. How many of you have said any version of the following:

“Wow, you’re totally gorgeous. Let me buy you a drink”

“God broke the mold the day he made you!”

“You are fine! I gotta take you to dinner sometime girl! Gimme your phone number!”

It’s a sad moment when any man lets rip with any of the above. Can you see how insulting these are? Cool guys never waste their time with “compliments” like these.

Not only is it blatantly obvious that the only thing you are thinking about is sex, but it is also painfully clear that you lack imagination and any ability to actually pay attention to anything other than her looks. That’s three strikes against you, and you have only said one thing!

Women don’t like to be treated as sex objects by men –clear? When you “compliment” her with any of the above, you give yourself exactly zero chance of meeting the actual person, and having a real conversation.

Let’s take a minute now and talk about how to compliment a woman, in a way that doesn’t insult her.

First of all, people (not only women), prefer to be complimented about things that they have actually done. So, in the case of complimenting a woman’s appearance, why not consider her selection of clothing and style?

“Let me say, you look terrific, your sense of style is spot-on. Are you a designer of some sort?”

“Are you an athlete? You walk with such grace and composure – not easy in heels on the concrete sidewalk”

Your chances of flattering her are very high with statements like these. You could even initiate a conversation with a woman using these.

Again, you are talking about the choices she made around her clothing selections for the day or the grace with which she carries herself (something she has undoubtedly worked hard for). You are complimenting the person, rather than her God-given looks.

If you are in conversation with her, and feel the desire to compliment her, again, try to stay away from her looks:

“Wow, I am impressed. You are a great conversationalist. This is really interesting. Let me ask you, how were the dinner table discussions when you were younger – pretty involved I’d bet.”

“You’re clearly well read – a characteristic I really respect. Where did you get that quality? My mom and dad were avid readers when I was growing up, so I naturally became one too in my adult years.”

If you ever do feel compelled to remark on a woman’s beauty, be sure not to do it when you first meet. This just places you in the age-old category of a guy who is only interested in sex, and can’t think of anything original to say. SERIOUSLY. It is far more powerful to do so later in the conversation, as she will feel more comfortable around you and thusly more able to be flattered.

“You know, I haven’t said so until now because I didn’t want to make you uncomfortable – but you are a very beautiful woman. It must be both a burden and a luxury for you in life. Do you ever feel that people are often speaking to the face or the body, and not the person?”

Ultimately, you want the compliment to indicate that you are able to pay attention to more than just her pretty face. It also indicates that you have some knowledge of what it means to be a beautiful woman in the world. This helps her to relax around you even more, allowing her to open up more to you.

That’s how you really reach her guys, not by barking at her out your car window…

Feel free to send me your comments or questions. I am always eager to hear from guys in the real world, facing real challenges. You might be surprised to know that many guys suffer the same challenges as you – so go ahead and ask. Just be sure to put “Mailbag” in the subject line.

Also, I have gotten a number of very positive reviews on the ebook (3rd edition released yesterday), and if you’d like to send me a note, feel free to do so via the “About Us” page on the website.

That’s it for now guys, and thanks a lot for your time.

Best,

SN.

Last night I made a small wager with a friend (two movie tickets) on who would guess the closer number of books sold between the hour of 1-2pm today…I guessed high and he guessed low. Well, we went four times over my number…unbelievable!

In fact, we had to keep the link up a bit past 2pm as the server CRASHED…haha. Unreal. Anyway, the special deal has come and gone, but you can certainly still purchase the ebook by clicking here. The price is $39.99 and is a STEAL given the amount of information in the ebook. In fact, I guarantee that you will save $30 on your next date if you just follow the advice I outline in Chapter II.

Here is the link again…and if you have any questions about the book, check out our sales page - it’s up and running!

Thanks to all who are now enjoying the book…and if you have feedback feel free to post it here.

Enjoy!

SN.

From 1-2pm EDT today, you will be given an extraordinary window of opportunity to purchase the third edition of How To Get A Girlfriend for $9.99. Without question, this is the single best book of dating and relationship advice available today for men. Heck, don’t take it from me, take it from a guy who posted to this blog THIS MORNING:

Just a quick note to say your book is better than all the other books ( Mystery,
David D, etc ). You teach men to become better first and your tips and techniques
like baiting are amazing in attracting women to you. I was on the train and just
started talking to a very attractive woman who wa loving the conversation we were
having ( my stop came and she gave me her number )- Natural game is the way forward.
Thank you Stephen Nash

And he was even reading the second edition…the third is even BETTER…OK? Enough said.

Here is the exact link to go to at 1pm EDT:

http://www.how-to-get-a-girlfriend.com/ebook

Ready…set…

SN.

I alluded to this on Monday, and I want to make this special announcement here today. The third edition of my ebook “How To Get A Girlfriend” is due out tomorrow, and I am prepared to make a VERY special offer to those of you with some fast fingers and a damn good wrist-watch.

First of all, let me remind you what this ebook, and CEIC, is really all about:

1) We’re teach men how to CHOOSE the women and social circle that they WANT;
2) We give them the skills necessary to build the lifestyle of their dreams
3) We empower men with a personal style and social skills to present themselves in the most powerful, magnetic way possible

Ultimately, we believe in empowering men with the intelligence and skill necessary to meet women that lead to long-term relationships.

Plenty of companies can assist you with meeting women solely for ‘getting laid’, which is fine. We offer a different skill-set; one that works across social environments (even into business networking), and that is flexible, easy, and adaptable to YOUR personality so that you never feel inauthentic.

We’re about developing a magnetic personality which literally attracts the RIGHT women to YOU. No more chasing, no more sarging…

I mention both intelligence and skill as being the prerequisites for the power of CHOICE. If you’re seeking that, this is your lucky DAY (and I truly mean that too…)

In order to develop skill, you have to have INTELLIGENT information. In order to develop skill, you have to take that intelligence and APPLY it - right? Well, tomorrow you can have everything you need for…$9.99…

That’s right - the 3rd edition of “How To Get A Girlfriend” will launch tomorrow at 1pm EDT, and will be available for $9.99 for ONE HOUR ONLY. At 2pm EDT we kick-in the regular price of $39.99 (still, a total STEAL considering the YEARS of research I have saved you).

There are no exceptions to this (not even you mom). If you log-in at 2:02 pm, you will have missed the window…

OK? Got it?

From 1pm-2pm EDT tomorrow, Thursday, May 17th, the NEWLY-MINTED 3rd edition of “How To Get A Girlfriend” will be available for $9.99…at 2:01pm EDT it goes up to $39.99…

See ya -
SN.

I was recently out with some female friends of mine here in New York City. We were mostly talking about dating and socializing (for some reason, conversations seem to end up on that topic when I am around). One of my closer friends, let’s call her Amy, was talking about a guy she recently met at a party. Seems innocent enough, right? Well, what she disclosed to me in the next three minutes was like getting more than just a peek behind the veil. I was astonished at what she told me.

Before I delve into what her mental processes were, let me remind you - with women, you NEVER get a chance at a first impression. I find that men tend to reserve judgment for a few moments before arriving at an opinion of a person.

Women, however, tend to form this is a matter of SECONDS. So, if you don’t have your look, vibe & life HANDLED, you are destined for the bottom feeding extravaganza known as sarging, and spending time with GUYS who like to talk about (but never actually DATE) attractive and interesting women.

Women have developed a system of sensitivity over the years that we can NOT relate to. They have a “Creep Meter” (now known forever as the CM) that is designed to protect them from predatory, disingenuous posers who masquerade as having their shit together when in reality they are arrogantly assuming that it is OK to play in the “land of make believe”. And, just so we all know, what is small subset of these ne’er-do-wells?

- PUAs (aka, pick-up artists)
- Players
- Serial daters
- Nicely dressed dudes, pockets filled with “things to say” only seeking sexual fulfillment (aka, pick-up artists)

Hopefully this will be a bit repetitive to you who consistently read this blog, but the above subset only attracts its reciprocal – meaning, dimly lit hotties or player girls…which is why they are all chronically single, and mostly spend time with members of their OWN sex. Pretenders attract pretenders…the CM is much too high for women with a reasonably high IQ.

So, back to my story…what I did was ask her to put her thoughts into WORDS (in an email) so I could directly reproduce it here with no editorializing on my part. Here is the precise mental process of Amy:

First, I noticed his body language – it was like he was subtly leading with his dick. The guy had his head slightly tilted back, like an arrogant snob or something. I felt like he was looking down on me. I then quickly read his tone, it was tense – like he had something to hide. It was too high-pitched for his “too big” posture. I never trust a guy with tense vocal chords, I don’t really know why either. Then, I noticed he was wearing a necklace, and when I asked him about it he had NO idea that the icon in it was in fact an Asian fertility symbol – what a poser! His shirt collar had ring around the collar – how tacky is that! Next, his belt buckle was WAY over the top – classic try hard. I hate it when guys overcompensate for their lack of personality with flash and glitz. He had a slight unibrow, which is often not a huge issue for me, but combined with everything else, made it yet another piece of evidence. His fingernails were all dirty – which is completely inexcusable – and his shoes did not match his clothing. You know, all of this may seem small, and petty. But, I gotta say, all of these small things were completely congruent with his VIBE – there was something about him which was like a real estate salesman who wouldn’t take you into the basement cause he knew it was flooded. I can’t put my finger on it, but he was just CREEPY.

Amy.

Flabbergasting. I mean, what’s a guy to do with all of this analysis going on?? Is there any hope for us? At first, I thought that Amy might be the problem. But all of the other women at the table completely AGREED.

What I later learned was that many of these small things are not a big deal if the VIBE seems cool and trustworthy. A woman is willing to overlook a zit, or a dirty fingernail, if the overall picture is together.

So, how do you know if the overall picture is together? My advice – LOOK AROUND YOU. Are there women in your world? Do you have female friends in your life? If not, you might be setting off CM’s when you meet women.

Women WANT to meet and date cool guys who have REAL lives. If you are not dating interesting, attractive women – you are probably creeping them out.

You can dress this up as much as you want, you can learn all the gimmicks you can get your hands on, you can even model the VERY BEST in the world…and still be single, horny, desperate…and alone.

Hell, at the end of Project Hollywood, we, the so-called BEST, were ALL single. What a joke right! There were guys there teaching men how to pick-up girls who hadn’t been kissed in MONTHS.

The message here is – GET A LIFE…and get a REAL one. That is the ONLY way to meet women. And, as you get that life, LEARN social skills the hard way – by practicing. Guys who set off the CM’s of the world are unsocialized, and are unwilling to practice in order to normalize their behavior around women.

So, are you willing?

On Thursday, the ONLY ebook you will ever need is going to be re-released (in its newly minted 3rd edition format – it looks AWESOME). In it I cover the ENTIRE list of things you need to handle in order to meet not only MORE women, but the ever-elusive, RIGHT woman for you…

Stay tuned.

SN.

Guys -

I have just wrapped up the third version of my ebook How To Get A Girlfriend, and I can confidently say, it now has EVERYTHING you need to know about meeting and dating beautiful women.

I reread it about a month ago, and really liked what I had produced in the second edition some 18 months ago. It was very comprehensive about meeting women, lifestyle, social skills, personal style etc. But, I did sense that a lot had been learned since then, that I could add. I also saw places where more detail could increase the value of the book to guys. So, I spent the next 30 days rewriting the book - ENTIRELY.

So, what’s in the newer version, you might ask?

First of all, after working with so many guys in the past 18 months, I have a much clearer idea of how to teach social skills. In particular:

Approaching women
“Hook”ing them into the conversation
Making connections via conversation
Flirting
Teasing
Storytelling
Baiting
Complimenting
Leading

These skills were covered in the second edition, but I added nearly 30 pages of MORE info in the third edition SOLELY on social skills. I have read other ebooks, and I can confidently say, the latest version of How To Get A Girlfriend is the MOST comprehensive book on the market for teaching you HOW to meet more women and then WHAT to say and do when you do meet them. Seriously guys, it is ALL in there…

I also added multiple pages on:

Discovering and committing to a PURPOSE
Ways to enhance your social circle
How to set up your social life so that women come to YOU
More tips on developing a killer personal style without going into bankruptcy
How to free yourself from being “desperate” and “needy” so that you are finally, “attractive”

I added some 50 new pages of content to the book. It is by far now the most effective and comprehensive book on the market. It both teaches you how to approach women cold, but more importantly, it shows you how to change your lifestyle so you simply don’t have to…they will come to you instead…

Stay tuned for this Thursday’s release. Oh, and as a special to YOU, we will be announcing a special launch offer Wednesday afternoon…that’s right…tune in on Wednesday afternoon to learn of the special you can benefit from on Thursday…but look fast, because this special will be gone very soon after it is offered…

Until then -

SN.

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