Hey guys…about to split for vacation with my girlfriend. I’ve done a slew of 1 on 1’s recently, and have gotten very positive feedback. The following one is pretty complete and glowing (of course, or why would I post it? ….

I was able to sign up a for a session with one of Stephen (AKA “Playboy from the Game”) and the guy totally blew me away. I’ve always been a fan of CEIC ever since I purchased his ebook “How To Get a Girlfriend” and his Natural Attraction Audio last December.

Stephen’s approach to meeting women is almost against what’s said out there in the community, but what’s interesting is it seems like Tyler Durden is also starting to incorporate the same approach as Stephen’s. I’ll most likely write a review to his Natural Attraction Audio, which I think is one of the best sources to learn about dating.

The reason why I like CEIC sooo much is because their step-by-step plan is soooooo easy to incorporate, sooo easy to personalize and take in as your own structure that once mastered, you’ll be extremely smooth, socially savvy, and a total chick magnet (especially to women of high caliber).

One thing also differentiated Stephen from other Pick-up/Dating Instructors out there is that it was very personalized and I thought out of all of them, he was the most authentic. The first couple of hours was just him getting to know you, the qualities you like about women, your future goals, where you currently stand, etc.

He takes all of these information, takes notes about you (mostly to e-mail you about what was talked about in the session and to give you more advice), and starts to have a small inner game session about your current perceptions and approach to living life and meeting women.

He takes these tidbits of information and shows where you have limiting beliefs, what’s holding you back from becoming your best self, and reframes these and then gives you lots of advice on how to achieve your goals.

His analogy of how a typical AFC achieves his goals (can also fall on girls), is that we tend to stay in the shallow water and are afraid to go deep ourselves or just stops pursuing at all after testing the waters, that we never find out ourselves what’s truly at the bottom of the water.

He claims that once you’ve encountered resistance and are being tested, that’s when you know who you truly are, and this will reflect in your relationships with others.

At first, I was totally confused and bewildered with what he meant by that but then once he started leading me SOCRATICALLY to know what it’s like to be a really attractive, a man with direction, challenging, and moving forward towards his goals, I TOTALLY understood this concept.

Essentially, the reason why Stephen does this in the first couple of hours is to actually get you to PHYSICALLY step in to become an attractive man, one that attracts the type of women he likes/yearns for, and he does this by breaking down where you are at and then giving you advice on how to get your BEST self, which is getting those goals you’ve been looking into and actually growing the same qualities that you’ve mentioned you want from the woman of your dreams.

Basically his structure is ENGAGE, HOOK, and make QUICK CONNECTIONS, which is VERY simple and all you need to know are a few techniques such as his ultimate weapon: the art of baiting, the context of your life in midst conversation, interlace that with the topics you and the girl are talking about, add that with a little flirting (which Stephen doesn’t highly emphasize very much, and if you’re wondering why, I will get into that later), teasing, storytelling, and inner game, and you’ve become one the most charismatic, smoothest guys in the world.

I was amazed while Stephen was doing demonstrations, he would use the little tidbits of information he knew about me and interlace them into stories and bait so much information about me in a topic, and he came off so congruent with everything, that he could’ve gotten away with being me (THANK GOD he’s not into Identity Theft).

He also came of as very Authentic, non-gimmicky, and very Natural, that everything he DID never came across as “I’m so full of myself I like talking about me” or “trying too hard” frame, and everything was in the context of the conversation that he came off as very GENUINE.

The very skill of taking any context and using it to become interesting is an AMAZING skill and is one I would TRULY love to develop.

One thing I noticed about him, even though he didn’t explicitly state it, is that he spoke very visually and kinesthetically that I could see why he’s soo captivating. Add that skill with all the interesting tidbits about your life, and you’re most likely the most interesting person people will ever perceive.

I also noticed that Stephen was VERY Knowleagable, he has a huge vocabulary, and that added to his genuine curiosity and vibe, because as he was interlacing stories and baiting things about my life, he described everything in his Own words and using his own Descriptive words, which totally made it looked like he owned the experience and my life.

Stephen has this quality because he’s not only intelligent but he himself lives an interesting life, he’s seen and travelled to many areas in the world, has lived and experienced many things, and his life seems so lively and fullfilling that he just never runs out of things to talk about.

This is EXACTLY why CEIC always encourages guys to challenge themselves, to actually live an interesting life instead of taking someone elses material and use it. It’s a lot better to actually be congruent with your words with actions, since Stephen strongly emphasizes, “A girl will know that you’ve been faking it all afterwards, once you’ve dropped all the routines and the robotic performance, what have YOU got to show?” which is an EXCELLENT point to make.

I am very fortunate to reach him first before I took any other workshop before, because I’ve seen and spoken to some wings, and some of them look completely mechanical and took the word ALPHA to whole a different meaning.

One thing I noticed about his difference between his approach and Juggler’s method is the frame control. Juggler emphasizes that the girl or the group of people should be interesting, and your job is to make them look like it by charming and complimenting the set.

Stephen on the other hand emphasizes that you should be interesting as well as steering the conversation in the art of relation, that you relate to everybody, and the frame should be in your world at first, to create a context and a vision of how your world looks like because in order for anyone to start a relationship, any relationship (business, girlfriend, friend, etc….), because to start ANY relationship each person HAS to get to know each other first.

By opening yourself to get a girl to know you through baiting and storytelling, a picture of your world plants into the girl’s head and she now has an idea of how your world is like, your personality, and values. In addition to that, add a little flirting, you have a strong chance of generating attraction.

Juggler and Stephen both also emphasizes genuine compliments instead of using the most overrated tool, the neg. By complimenting her genuinely, you actually ease her and get her to open up, by showing you’re actually focusing on the person and not on her looks.

Add that with a nice, authentic, and gentlemanly demeanor, and you most likely won’t even NEED a neg because there won’t be a bitch shield to encounter.

He then broke down the truth about the bitch shield, and the reason why women puts it up is it’s because they don’t TRUST you the minute talk to her. That’s why he emphasizes not to dress outlandishly, and not to dress too conservative either, but to tailor your style to one the type of women you want to attract to your life.

By dressing outlandishly and eye captivating in a way that you are “peacocking,” it’s an obvious signal to women that YOU are trying to get their attention.

Stephen says that women of high quality would think you’re dressed childishly and immature.

So, if you’re interested in working with me 1 on 1 - that’s right, 6 uninterrupted hours of my time - then click the link below to sign up!

http://www.how-to-get-a-girlfriend.com/1-on-1-coaching/

Stephen Nash.

I sent out an email to the newsletter subscribers yesterday about an offer to get Natural Attraction free.

Basically:

Submit your testimonial to me stephen (at) how-to-get-a-girlfriend.com
Attach a photo

There are THREE copies to give away. The deadline is SATURDAY. So get cracking and let me know what you think of CEIC and how it’s helped you!

Stephen

Winning with women is about knowing WHAT to do, and about knowing WHEN to do it.

With each woman, there are certain “windows of opportunity” for moving the interaction to the next level.

Take for instance asking a woman to come back to your place for the first time: This situation is both about having a plan for what to do and in knowing the right time to do it.

Women and men are very different. Women tend to be more centered in how they are feeling. If the FEELING of the moment is right, she will be more open to you ESCALATING the interaction.

This is precisely when you must make the move. Once that moment has passed, the window is closed. It may open again, but do you want to take that chance?

There are specific windows of opportunity that consistently arise that you MUST be aware of. They often appear for a short time, and can close just as fast. That’s why it is crucial to take a step forward and escalate when you have the chance.

So, what are these windows?

We have observed 5:

1. The approach – hesitate here, and she will intuitively know that you lack confidence, decreasing her chances of being attracted to you. Instead of lingering around her and mulling over whether to approach or not, decide elsewhere and then just go straight in when ready.

2. Getting her number – make this happen smoothly, and she will be impressed. Many guys make this moment uncomfortable for her. Guess how she feels when she sees your call come through on her phone? You guessed it…uncomfortable.

3. The kiss – women dream of knowing a man who knows when to go for that first kiss. They also dream of him doing it with confidence. A confident man takes the pressure off of the woman, making her relax and open up…making for a great kiss, and a great memory for both of you.

4. Asking her back to your place – Knowing the appropriate way to invite her to your home is surprisingly very challenging for lots of men. Give her an interesting reason to come over, other than your cozy bed, then make her feel comfortable. Remember, you are showing her an intimate side of your world here, and she will hope that you will do so with sensitivity.

5. Escalating sexually – Admit it, you hesitate when it comes to physical escalation don’t you? Women are starved for men who understand their physical needs from the first touch, all the way to climax. Again, you must make it about her comfort, and her pleasure, or you miss the boat entirely to real romance and pleasure.

The best naturals out there spot these opportunities instinctively and know when to make a move. This is their “Cutting Edge.” This is why they always get the girl.

Think about those times when you just know you could have made a move, but hesitated. I know that for me, times like that linger in my memory empowering me the next time I am faced with a similar situation. Only that next time, I don’t hesitate.

It is always better to go for it and see what happens, rather than not try and have regrets.

These windows of opportunity that I’m talking about can be a deal breaker if you don’t move on them. I vividly remember a girl back in college I was chatting with, when the opportunity arose for me to go in for the kiss. I hesitated that night…and it was the last chance I ever got with her.

The next time I saw her, she was cold towards me. I didn’t realize it at the time, but she felt rejected. She gave me a window; I passed it up and blew it for good.

You risk her losing attraction and interest in you if you don’t trust yourself enough to go for it. When we don’t risk and make the move, the excuse is, “I don’t want to blow it”.

Ironically, this is precisely when we do “blow it”, by not moving with the opportunity. Which risk is REALLY worth it?

Don’t let this happen to you. Our work with clients is intended to give you both specific strategies for smoothly making these transitions, as well as equipping you with the proper confidence to do so powerfully.

In fact, in my book “How to Get a Girlfriend”, I cover exactly why women NEED for us to handle these moments, and precisely HOW to do so each and every time.

Go ahead and check it out. You can be reading it in five minutes.

Just remember, these windows of opportunity do not arrive with a flashing sign stating “GO FOR IT NOW”. Instead, you have to feel them instinctually. Chances are, if you feel it, so does she…do you have what it takes to make the move?

Stephen Nash
Cutting Edge Image Consulting

What is the MOST common question I get when I meet men who struggle with meeting and dating women?

“Hey Nash - What am I supposed to say?”

Every guy we work with gets hung up on this issue. It is a good sign for a guy to ask this, because it indicates he realizes that what he usually says does NOT work.

In my ebook, How To Get A Girlfriend, I cover social skills ad nauseum so that you NEVER feel lost in a conversation again – seriously, that is THE biggest chapter in the book.

After reading my ebook,How To Get A Girlfriend, guys usually experience a very large leap in their social acumen. So much so that they read it again, and again…it’s a VERY valuable resource – one that you’ll want to refer to multiple times.

In a 1-on-1, we always give guys specific things to say, to get them warmed up, and to help them feel comfortable in approaching and chatting with women.

However, relying upon these “lines” or “gimmicks” long-term forces guys to lock-in to mechanical behavior, shutting them down, and eventually turning them into social robots.

This prevents a real connection, and any hope of seeing the woman again. We view these as training wheels, and not something to use for the real ride.

What we teach guys are SKILLS, not “gimmicks”. There is a huge difference between “lines” and SKILL.

Feeling confident in one’s ability to flirt with women is the SKILL I want to briefly discuss with you here.

Flirting (or teasing) is simply the ability to have fun with yourself and with her while at the same time demonstrating that you are willing to make fun of her, tease her, and point out her quirks in a fun and playful way.

Flirting is the perfect way to maintain and continue a conversation with a woman. It is also a great way to hook her by revealing your sense of humor.

Some of flirting is purposely, consciously creating a negative emotion.

We call it – a light insult with a smile…

If you combine it with humor, this slight insult will come across as…flirting.

It shows her that you understand emotional communication, and are not going to be like the average guy who waltzes over and engages her with boring banter.

You are different, and know “the code” so to speak.

Ever wondered how to be on the “inside” when it comes to meeting and dating gorgeous women?

Well what we are discussing here is the key to surrounding yourself with hot women for you to choose from…

A guy who goes in and tries to shower her with positive emotions from the beginning with compliments and questions usually is seen as needy.

You want her to earn the good stuff, so you don’t give it away immediately. Once she earns, it, feel free to give it to her.
Until then, set the bar high, and flirt away.

OK – enough of this describing flirting…lets give you some real life examples.

That’s right – you can take these with you and use them today to be more successful with women… might want to keep this post hidden from your friends though!

Here are some real-world-tested examples:

- (If they are challenging you in any way)”You guys are mean. You remind me of the playground bullies in 3rd grade, who used to throw sand at me. Of course, those kids eventually got kicked out of school…problem children…jailbirds now…see what you’re in for?”

- (If she is asking lots of “testy” questions) “I like that you are asking so many questions, it shows that you are both curious and intelligent. You remind me of Polly Matson who used to sit front and center in 5th grade to impress the teacher with hard questions. (then, if she continues asking questions, refer to her as “Polly”)”

- (If she condescends to you in ANY way) “OK, little Lucy from Charlie Brown…we need to get you a football and a little blue dress…very feisty…”

All of those are solid gold – and I hand them to you on a silver platter in hopes that you will get a feel for flirting…
Remember, the idea is to nail down the skill, not just learn a bunch of lines that work for us virtually every time!!
Oh yeah – and here is what not to say:

“Let me buy you a drink”

“You are so gorgeous”

“You are so hot”

“That shirt would look GREAT on my floor” (haha – that one’s actually funny, but NOT to be used in real life!
Avoid such comments, as the men who say these are instantly categorized as being the “creep” only interested in her body.

This is a lousy way to talk to a woman…amazing that most guys out there are doing just that!!

Do you see now what kind of advantage we are offering you?

Learn to demonstrate your personality in a way that engages her, and gets her guessing. If you can do that you will win big-time.

This communicates with her in an emotional way, rather than intellectually. This is more powerful.

Guys who are good at this never hear “let’s just be friends” from women.

Ever heard that before?

Me too…but no more…

Also, flirting demonstrates that you have a sense of humor. Often, when you are flirting, you are saying things that could be interpreted as negative.

This is why doing so with a sense of humor, and a smile, is critical.

With flirting, it is more important how you say something, rather than what you are actually saying.

That one was so important, I am going to say it again:

With flirting, it is more important how you say something, rather than what you are actually saying.

Most importantly, we teach SKILLS and provide exercises that help you learn these skills FAST. Sound good to you?

Until next time…wishing you the best.

Your friend,

Stephen

Ever been talking with a woman, the conversation is rolling along, you are both laughing and enjoying yourselves and then out of nowhere, the conversation begins sinking faster than the Titanic!? It begins as a numb feeling in the pit of your stomach which works its way up your head. Everything you think to say seems “wrong” as self-doubt has now taken over. The conversation has taken a detour to the point of no return. You just blew your chances and are left wondering, what just happened?

This situation usually concludes with an awkward silence, and her unforgettable words “well, I guess I better get back to my friends.”

Truthfully, this disaster might not have been your fault. You might have been saying and doing all the right things. It could be that she suddenly: got tired, needed to go to the bathroom, remembered that she left the stove on, or that final ill-fated beer made it to her head – hard to say my friend.

What we like to focus on is having a plan. We teach this in our programs and products and have elaborated in my ebook How To Get A Girlfriend.

And when a guy has a plan, he then becomes responsible for driving the conversation towards the goal of getting a phone number, date, etc… A plan is no guarantee for success, as anything can happen in the jungle of socializing. But at no point can you risk allowing the conversation to turn negative or boring. Be aware of when things start to turn sour and then get the interaction back on track FAST.

The basic idea is to stop the current thread of conversation and quickly say or do something which swiftly takes you to higher ground. Here are some examples, and these have been TESTED and definitely work:

1. Say out of nowhere: “Oh! That reminds me of (recent movie) (anything)”

Even if the topic at hand doesn’t remind you of … it doesn’t matter, just lead into a different topic.

2. Make a general observation of your surroundings: “Hey, this song reminds me of my old high school dances. Remember the funny outfits people used to wear?”

Don’t acknowledge the previous topic, but move the conversation quickly to something else where you are likely to share something in common.

3. My friend Neil likes to use: “It just hit me, do you know who you look like?”

What better topic to continue with than to talk about her.

4. Change locations: “I love the view from the windows here – ever seen it? You gotta see the rooftops in this neighborhood – incredible.”

Gesture for her to follow you, and lead her to the windows – just be sure you know what you are talking about! This line won’t work in the middle of the country.

Oh, and if you haven’t purchased my ebook How To Get A Girlfriend yet, what are you waiting for? It is the BEST source of practical, easy-to-learn information on dating and relationships currently on the market – period. It comes with a 7-day free trial. Just click this link and be reading it in 5 minutes. Seriously – you can’t lose.

Ultimately, if you find yourself in the situation of “the sinking conversation”, you are now armed with three surefire ways to buy yourself more time. Remember these and use them. I assure you they have saved me many times in the past. Enjoy!

Stephen Nash

Most guys hear the word man and instantly envision the traditional Marlboro Man pose, with lowered brow, and suspicious gaze…

So, lets get real and be serious about this for a moment…or, better yet, let’s NOT. Being too serious, and trying to flirt, is like C3PO trying to break dance. So, how can we take the tension out of dating, while maintaining effectiveness?

In my ebook How To Get A Girlfriend I spend a LOT of time covering the secrets to mastering your dating life. One of the biggies is having a social confidence and social skill which allows the most empowered, attractive version of yourself emerge.

A critical skill to master is the art of….flirting

Listen, I work with a lot of guys and I know that most of them feel pretty clueless when it comes to flirting. They either overdo it, and come off like a horse’s $&# or the don’t do it enough, failing to create any sexual tension. These guys tend to live with the “nice guy” label, and have many female “friends” in their lives but little romance.

The first key to flirting is to RELAX. When you are uptight about a girl “liking you”, she will sense it and lose interest FAST. This is not rocket science here guys!

When you feel this way, look her in the eye and imagine her snoring. I know it sounds strange, but when you see that pretty face of hers blaring out a loud snore while asleep, she tends to lose all the importance you have given her. The idea is to realize that she is not deserving of your power, so why be freaked out in her presence?

Second, being flirtatious means being playful. There is a lot written up out there about the importance of being “cocky”. Frankly, this idea is played out. The guys I meet tell me the same thing:

“Every time I get cocky with her, she loses interest in me. I always come off like an ass!”

Yep. That’s why we don’t talk cocky here. The key is to be PLAYFUL. Teasing her is GREAT. Treat her like she’s the nerdy kid in high school. When she does something dumb, bust her on it. When you do this though, do it with a smile – be sure she knows you are teasing her. Otherwise, without the playful attitude, you will be categorized as a jerk.

Incidentally, NEVER make fun of her looks. Feel free to compliment her “look”, but never tease her about her genetic appearance. Tease and bust on her behavior only. This is where the fun happens.

The magic combination is to combine this playful attitude with being a gentleman. Open doors, pull out the chairs, offer your arm when going over the curb, help with her jacket…all of those chivalrous things…DO THEM.

Feel free to be as nice and courteous to her as possible. But, be sure to mix that with teasing and a playful combination. Having this mixture allows you to be a gentleman. Without it, you become her “friend” and a “nice guy”. Yuck!

By revealing that you are considerate and fun, you become the big winner. It is the essence of what is called “push/pull”. I cover this in greater detail in my ebook and audio program. For now, just note that when you tease her, you subtly (psychically) push her away. When you are considerate and chivalrous, you pull her towards you. This creates TENSION.

This tension is also known as – Sexual Tension. To flirt like a man means to be the master of tension. When to dial it up, when to slow it down, and when to drop it altogether. It takes experience to master it, but focus on these principles to ride the fast track:

• Relax – nothing is more unattractive than an uptight guy, chill out and lower the stakes;

• Playful – tease her, poke fun at her, and do it with a smile;

• Gentleman – Open doors, offer your hand and make her feel special;

• Confidence – do all of the above with confidence, and you will help her feel comfortable and
valuable…this combo makes you the big winner.

Also, if you haven’t picked up my ebook, what are you waiting for? Want to be on the expressway to success? Have I mentioned that it contains EVERYTHING you need to QUICKLY learn the skills necessary for meeting the RIGHT women for you? Read more about it by following this link:

www.how-to-get-a-girlfriend.com/ebook

Your friend,

Stephen Nash.

Guys -

I wanted to let everyone know that I’ve reduced the price for the “Natural Attraction” product down to $199.99 - this price is a SPECIAL for the summer month of June. Why you ask? Well, it’s my birthday month (AND my girlfriend’s birthday). So, I’ve decided to spread the good cheer all around…

I encourage you to take advantage of this extraordinary offer. If you’re considering laying down $400, $900, $3K (God forbid) - forget about it. This program has EVERYTHING you need to meet, attract, and date the women of your dreams on YOUR terms. And hey, if you don’t like it, you can return it within 30 days of purchase for a full refund. So, you literally have nothing to lose.

As you may/may not know, the “Natural Attraction” program covers:

How to meet women anytime, anywhere
What to say (exactly)
How to naturally transition into not needing a routine or line AT ALL - not a one!
How to know if she’s really interested
How to combat flaking
What makes a GREAT date
How to know if she’s ready to be kissed
How to escalate matters (eh-hem)
How to dress so that you look cool ALWAYS
How to develop your lifestyle so that you effortlessly meet women CONSTANTLY

And tons more…literally (you can read all you want on this site’s unique page located here)

Here’s what a guy emailed me recently with his feedback (sent on his own volition, btw):

“The program offers a 7 day, step by step plan for men of all backgrounds and demographics to not only learn to be attractive to women, but to take control of their lives building a positive, empowering lifestyle which magnetizes women and success. The program doesn’t advocate collecting a set of lines and skills (though it does deliver a wealth of material to ‘get started’), but emphasizes a holistic approach of living as a powerful, confident, successful, and happy person which breaks the cycle of negative emotions and failed relationships in a man’s life.”

You can read more about it by clicking here, or by going to the tab above which reads “7 Day Audio Program”. Be sure to listen to the samples we’ve uploaded which further confirm the strength and completeness of this program.

What else can I say…absolutely nothing but…

Have a great summer!

SN.

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