I am sure you guys have heard throughout your travels in the dating community of the “Alpha Male” concept.

When I was getting started, I had this mistaken idea that an Alpha Male was an asshole who bullied his way through life taking what he wanted in spite of what anyone else thought.

Over the years I realized that the “Alpha Male” was in fact someone who was highly autonomous. Which led me to create an entire third of my curriculum with guys that I work with.

Here are some definitions which might help:

Autonomy: (Greek: Auto-Nomos - nomos meaning “law”: one who gives oneself his own law) means freedom from external authority.

Alphamale: In social animals, the alpha male or alpha female is the individual in the community whom the others follow and defer to. Where one male and one female fulfill this role, they are referred to as the alpha pair.

As I said, autonomy is central to my teachings here at Cutting Edge Image Consulting. We develop your skills and lifestyle so that you have the freedom from external authorities.

For example:

A woman calls you up and flakes on you. How do you respond?

An autonomous response would be to merely conclude that this woman is immature. You move on.

So much of a man’s failure with women stems from a lack of good decisions and an inability of “one who gives oneself his own law”. When you live your own law, you are masculine, you are in control.

Women intuitively sense where you are internally. They sniff your “inner game” from a mile away.

If you are living in harmony with your nature, you will attract the RIGHT women. If you aren’t, you will repel the right women and attract the WRONG women.

Why can’t pick-up artists keep a relationship? See above.

A man’s nature is his purpose, and the closer you are to living a life directed towards this purpose the more integrity you will have.

On top of this, social skills are the necessary vehicle for communicating and conveying your “inner game” and your personality.

All of this is so critical to consider repeatedly no matter what stage you are at - beginner, advanced, Master or Ninja…

Honestly - I look at this DAILY. There are so many distractions in life, in NYC, in love…that I have to work to stay focused and on my purpose.

Much of my 1-on-1 work is dedicated to helping you develop autonomy and get you on the path to being an “alpha-male”. It’s absolutely possible and worthwhile.

Learning gimmicks and routines will get you to a certain level, but my techniques will bring you the success you really want, spending time with beautiful women around you, and cool friends that know you for you and appreciate that fact.

On that note, I want you to make a decision to get this part of your life handled. It doesn’t necessarily mean coming to work with me, or buying any of my products.

I want you to start making decisions for the betterment of your own life, start pursuing interests that you would like, rather than what you think is “cool”.

Anyway, my buddy Carlos Xuma has researched the “Alpha Male” phenomenon, and has a KILLER video posted where he gives some truly quality content on the topic.

I HIGHLY recommend you check it out. Here’s a link:

Carlos Xume Alpha Lifestyle Video

He’s also launching a DVD program called “The Alpha Lifestyle”, which you can sign-up for at the link provided.

He has one of the best reputations in the community, and I strongly suggest you sign-on to his mailing list for the free content he’s about to dish-out.

Over ‘n out,

Stephen

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