My girlfriend’s mother gave me a personalized mousepad for Christmas…with our pic on it.

Last year, we went to a prom-style dance here in NYC for her school, and we had someone snap a digi-pic of us. So, her mom got the file and somehow got it printed on a mousepad.

She also made a scrapbook of our last year together - including our trip to Venezuela, and our various appearances down at their home in Maryland.

So, what’s the point? Why am I telling you?

I guess to say that…I’m in. Know what I mean?

The parents of your girlfriend might be tough ones to crack. Her dad, for example, is a classic alpha guy, who intimidated me at first.

Now, we’re pals. We watched the Pats/Giants game (little did we know it would be a precurser to a Super Bowl rematch) together, and roared at every score. He was kind enough to Tivo the UNC basketball game that night for me to watch later when we arrived…

These “little” things are the things that I now LOVE about being in a relationship. My life has expanded, and not just because I love my girlfriend.

Oh, and we moved in together back in December and have a puppy in our lives too (a black lab named “Magic”).

This is a FAR cry from Project Hollywood let me tell you! It’s also a far cry from the “pick-up” lifestyle too.

Let me come full circle with this before I sign off - if you want a GREAT life which includes a healthy, wonderful relationship, you’re going to have to BUILD the great life first…then, it can attract a healthy woman INTO it.

This is my big preaching - lifestyle lifestyle lifestyle…that is the way to healthy relationships with women…no line or gimmick will get you to the promised land…

Anyway, those are the thoughts rambling thru my head here on Monday morning…as I move my mouse along, and prepare to walk my dog.

This is what I always wanted.

Oh, and I’ve recently made more time for my business - so I should be posting much more regularly going forth. So, stay tuned for regular updates!

Stephen.

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