Could It Really Be This Simple To Attract Beautiful, Quality Women Into Your Life Without Needing Gobs of Money, A Fancy Car Or Beefy Muscles...So That You Can Eventually Choose That "One" Special Girl To Spend The Rest Of Your Life With?The Answer Is "YES"...And If You Want To Eliminate Insecurity Around Meeting Beautiful Women, Socializing With Them, Taking Them On Dates, Spending "Intimate" Time With Them And Developing Lasting, Healthy Relationships With Them...Oh, And If You Also Want A Choice Of Who To Date This Saturday Night...Then This May Be The Most Important Letter You Will Ever Read... Dear Friend, I have some important questions for you. Think carefully as you answer...
If you answered "Yes" to any of these questions, then I have some important news for you... The news is that these questions were asked by me at some point in my life, and know what? I am no longer asking them. I lived each of these at some point in my past, and through my personal research of women and dating, I have discovered that there are MANY guys who were just like me...before I discovered that there was an answer to this extremely painful reality. I have personally worked with, spoken to, emailed back & forth with and coached nearly one thousand men who experience pain, frustration, loneliness and downright hopelessness with women on a daily, and sometimes HOURLY basis. When I was at my "bottom" a few years back, I had reached a point of secretly hating women - they were responsible for my pain, my frustration, my loneliness... I Was Convinced That The "Attractive Women" Of The World Had Secretly Met And Had Mutually Decided That I Was Not Cool, Attractive Or "Enough" For Them And That They Should Never Talk To, Date, Kiss, Have Sex With, Or End Up In A Relationship With...ME.Sort of absurd isn't it? Well, this is the result of deeply-seated insecurity & years of downright terror felt around women...produces some pretty irrational thinking doesn't it?!! Of course there was never any meeting between these women....want to know the real story? Honestly, most women never even noticed me...I was the kind of guy who faded into the scenery, never spoke up, never let his desires and wishes known, and never followed the Nike slogan of..."Just Do It" ever, never, ever... Until I had felt enough pain, that is. Sadly, that was the case for me. When I was in high school, I was in love with a girl...let's call her "Tanya". In fact, I was attracted to her from the day I met her - which was in 5TH GRADE. For seven years (until graduation), I painfully watched as she grew, dated other guys, even hooked up with a few of my good friends. I sat back and did absolutely nothing...I was waiting and hoping for it to "just happen"...maybe I would get lucky and suddenly find myself kissing her, or maybe SHE would just make the move and end my misery! In other words, I was hoping that she would do MY JOB for me. Anyway, like a lot of us guys, I made Tanya my "best friend"...just so I could see her, spend time with her, and be with her. This reality sure was great for my fantasy life, but not for my real life...in reality man, this was immensely painful. 7 long years I sat back and waited for the law of LUCK to kick-in and make it happen...enduring my pain and loneliness like a real champ, but going home alone night after night after night. Even after Tanya, I dated women here and there - but none that I felt REALLY attracted to - I always found myself with women who were less than attractive to me because I had no idea how to talk to the ones that WERE attractive. In fact, when I would be around an attractive woman my biology would literally start to rattle. Adrenaline would begin to course through my body, and a noticeable shake would emerge in my hands. I was noticeably terrified. If I would be introduced to her, this shake would find its way into my mouth disabling me from making any sense at all to her in conversation! My body would literally start to flip-out at the mere presence of an attractive woman! Can you say...EMBARRASSING? Those times were very frustrating and lonely. There were nights where I cried myself to sleep...seriously...my heart ached for an answer, and a way out of this endless pain. These painful experiences would soon start working FOR me...the pain would in fact become motivation to change...but I wasn't quite ready yet! So, it was only natural that my dating success would be VERY low if I was not dating women I found very attractive. I mean, it seems obvious right? Spend time developing relationships with women you find attractive...sounds sort of like "Rule #1" doesn't it? Well, this wasn't the case for me and for lots of other guys I've met and since worked with. Here's the "pickle" I found myself in: One the one hand, I was desperate for companionship, connection and that feeling of..."I am a man, because I have a woman with me"... Biologically, I now know that the wish for companionship is healthy and GOOD. But on the other hand, I was so terrified of the women that could give me that feeling that I would only date women who couldn't! Does that make sense? The only women who could bring me that awesome feeling of attraction and connection were the VERY women I was afraid of! So, when I dated, it would usually be with women I was "lukewarm" towards AT BEST. And even then, I would often go 6 months between dates. On Average, From The Ages Of 18-31, I Would Date 2 New Women Per Year...You Read That Correctly, 2 New Women Per Year!That's it...and those would be women who either approached me, or with whom I was set-up with by a friend. Never was it a woman I approached or otherwise pursued socially. Never was it a woman who I saw and felt that physical sensation of attraction for...that gut-warming feeling of "YES...I want HER". No - the women who created that feeling in me, I actually ran FROM - OK? They terrified me... These are not good numbers for a guy who wanted a girlfriend...and not just any girlfriend...but a beautiful, intelligent, witty, cool, sexy, ambitious & adventurous woman that I could spend my life with. Between you and me, I never really enjoyed the whole "dating game" even when I was good at it - I mean, the "scene" is a LOT of work, OK? So, I've never been one who's drawn to the bachelor lifestyle...I have always known that my goal in life is to meet "That One Special Girl" to settle down and have a family with. But, in order to do that, I had to increase those numbers. I mean, two new women per year is NO WAY to search for a great woman... It's Living By The Law Of LUCK, And Great Women Are Not Attracted To Guys Who WAIT For Life To Give Them What They Truly Desire.Not only that, but the great women will be approached by a guy WAY before the law of LUCK can kick-in. About five years ago a relationship (or, rather, a "situationship" as I like to call them now) ended when a girl who was TOTALLY wrong for me "ended it"...want to know why? She CHEATED on me... That's right - she hooked-up with one of her neighbors, some dude named "Josh", and phoned me the next day to end our "situationship" once and for all. Once I found out, it was like I had been kicked in the stomach twenty times. I felt like everywhere I went people were laughing at ME for being such a "loser". I was stunned, I couldn't sleep at night, I was depressed...and this went on night after night... I remember one night waking up from a dream, where I had imagined her sleeping with the guy - "Josh" - I sat up in bed and felt this wave of relief come over me. It was as if this pain had been removed suddenly, and had been replaced with the TRUTH. I could see now that I HAD to make some changes. Living by the Law of Luck had brought me 20 years of pain and absolutely nothing else. It was time for a NEW DIRECTION. It didn't have to be this way. In fact, I now felt GLAD that something had finally happened that I knew would kick me in the ass and get me moving. She was just one of many women who I had compromised myself for because I simply had NO OTHER OPTIONS in my social life. There was no chemistry, no attraction, no compatibility - I had "took what I could get" for the final time. So, OF COURSE it wasn't going to work. I Realized That I Had To GET ACTIVE And GET SMART With Women & Dating In Order To Make This Happen.I had hit "rock bottom" and it was time now for a change... The first thing I realized was that it wasn't MY FAULT...and in fact, MANY guys were just as clueless. You see, no one taught me about women. No one taught me about social skills, dating or sex. My dad and I never had that classic sit-down between father and son, where the young man is coached on "the birds & the bees". My dad avoided the subject all together, never focusing on it and teaching me the ropes. So, quite naturally, I too never focused on it. In fact, I felt secretly ashamed of my desires sexually. I knew I wanted women, but I felt like it was "wrong" and "bad". In short, I had never been taught about what it means to be a GUY. Know what else? Hardly ANYONE is! I was definitely not alone in that... When I discovered that, man, I was relieved. So, I had to get moving and start making changes in my approach to all this - and Thank God I had finally received the kick in the butt I needed. Stefanie and Josh had just done me the biggest favor...they had kicked my tail into ACTION. Want to know something? It wasn't nearly as hard as I thought it would be, once I stopped making some critical mistakes. What's so interesting to me is that, now that I help guys with their women and dating challenges, AND now that I am in a loving, long-term relationship (yep, you heard me correctly - I have come full circle), I can see that MOST guys make these miscues when dealing with women:
Does it surprise you to know that women are not attracted to "nice guys"? Nope - not even close. In fact, quality women are REPELLED by these behaviors because they can sense the weakness and neediness behind them. And here you thought you were just being a "nice guy"... Women see right through it man, and that is a major reason why you are struggling in the dating game. The problem is that from YOUR point of view - you ARE being a nice guy - but from her point of view (which is the one that matters here), you are weakly trying to get her to "like" you. Why are most quality women turned off by this? Because they are smart, and sensitive. Attractive women are approached, wined, dined and advanced on by MANY guys...in fact, the VERY attractive women are "hit-on" often over 10 times per DAY. (Can you imagine?) The reason they don't respond to this is because it is INSULTING and MANIPULATIVE. Trust me - if you were to be treated this way over and over, you would get "smart" about it and become "sensitive" to even the most subtle forms of manipulation. Let me fill you-in on a little secret here friend, one that may surprise you. Most women could care LESS how much you earn, how big your muscles are, or how nice your car is, or what fancy meal you order off the menu. Women are seeking FEELINGS around men, not "stuff". What are some of these feelings?
To name a few. Quality women are not willing to settle for anything less than a MAN who can naturally provide these emotions to her on a regular basis. Men who can do that are naturally attractive to women. And here's a bit of good news: This can be LEARNED. I did it, and so can you. So, to become attractive to women, and to stop making these mistakes, you are going to have to make some changes, and the first step is to get HELP with making those changes. You agree, right? I've written an ebook called How To Get A Girlfriend, and in it I will teach you the 7 essential skills to attracting great women into your life, leading into naturally healthy, long-term relationships. Listen, cultivating new empowering "outer" behaviors - like "flirting" or "approaching" or "connecting" or "escalating" with women - can be hard work...in order to speed up your process, you're going to need a little (eh-hem) assistance. Also, you're going to need to address the needy, insecure parts of your personality and develop more "inner" confidence, self-esteem and power. So, there are really two areas you're going to need to address: 1) Your INNER Game The fastest way to success is to address BOTH your "inner game" and your "outer game" at the same time. By working on both simultaneously, you will:
What I learned was to have success - FAST success, I might add - you need to do BOTH at once. No amount of "outer game" techniques (like lines, body language tips, gimmicks, routines etc) will work unless accompanied by "inner game" confidence. No amount of "affirmations" will help truly transform the inner self-image unless it is accompanied by SKILLFUL technique when approaching & interacting with attractive women. Have you ever heard of Neil Strauss' "The Game"? Well, I was featured in that book...as "Playboy" (don't laugh, but that was my old nickname). Well, we were so focussed on "outer game" techniques for picking-up women, and totally clueless about "inner game" skill that we could attract women left and right, but couldn't keep them in our lives. They would see that we were fun, engaging, and attractive - but buried deep down within each of us, we were still each insecure. None of us were dealing with the "inner" challenges we were hiding with all of our "outer" skill...it was imbalanced, incomplete, and ultimately unfulfilling. Most guys want to feel attractive, cool, social power, status, acceptance & love - right? So, I set to work on finding a balanced yet FAST way to capitalize all of what I learned at "Project Hollywood" (the 'pick-up' artist mansion I helped co-found that is covered in Neil's book) with "inner game" technique and development that would work in the real world. I Realized That There Were 7 Fundamental Skills That Any Guy Can Learn To Enhance His Dating Life & To Experience More Success With Attractive Women.As you might have guessed, these skills are balanced between "inner" and "outer" techniques. Real quick, here's what I did... I researched by observing "naturals" - guys who didn't appear to be working at their social lives, and yet seemed to have massive success with women. These guys were massively confident and secure around women. They never seek approval from the opposite sex, and yet they are also very COOL guys... Not once did I see one behave like an asshole. They simply had an "it" factor that women go NUTS for. I befriended them and slowly broke down what it was that they were doing to get this success. I also interviewed many guys who were already friends of mine, and who were in lasting, healthy relationships with attractive women. Then, I internalized everything I was learning, and tested it in the REAL WORLD - in order to be able to pass this on, I knew I needed to "own" it for myself. What surprised me was that most of what these "natural" guys were doing was so subtle and yet so simple. It was more about how they were LIVING than how they were behaving with the women in their lives. Their Lives Naturally Validated Them, So They No Longer Had To Seek Validation From WOMEN.Interesting, isn't it? Seeking validation or approval from women is the essence of the disease of neediness & insecurity, which is the "Number 1 - Numero Uno" challenge that guys face who are not successful with women. Remember those 5 miscues I mentioned previously? They are the chief SYMPTOMS of this disease. The FAST track is to treat both the symptoms (outer game) & the disease (inner game). I hope I didn't lose you there...here, let me briefly explain: Most guys incorrectly think that all they need are social skills to better "approach" & "attract" women. That is sometimes true, but not NEARLY enough to cross the goal line. If you're looking for a GIRLFRIEND, you're going to need LIFE skills to attract the right kinds of women for a relationship. Social skills are just ONE of the 7 essential skills taught in How To Get A Girlfriend. (I'll list exactly what is in the ebook in just a minute) So, one day a few years back, "it" happened. I was out with some friends and could sense in me that feeling I had been searching for... Power. Now, it wasn't a manipulative power - no - but it was a power where I knew I finally had CHOICE. The inner and outer elements had come together...and I had been fully transformed. I realized that the patterns of the past were truly over now. Those old impulses had been quieted, and new ones had replaced them. I Could Choose Who I Wanted To Be With & Who I Didn't Want To Be With. I Was No Longer A "Victim" Of The Law Of Luck.The freedom that this brought me friend...well, it was a HUGE moment for me. Not surprisingly, a few months after that moment, I met the woman of my dreams - and we're still together... When I met her, a huge wave of relief poured through me. This was what I had worked so hard for. My moment had come, and I was READY. I'd like to pass this on to you. As I said, I've put all these learnings and techniques into an ebook called How To Get A Girlfriend, and in it I reveal these 7 skills and provide "cutting-edge" exercises for you to do so you can quickly learn them too. Oh, and only ONE of "The 7" has to do with social skills and talking to women. Though I do give you specific things to say to women that WORK (to get you started) such as "openers" (LOTS of openers), many examples of "flirting", "teasing" & "baiting", a number of awesome stories to use, escalation techniques, topics to use (and topics to AVOID at all costs), ways to build the connection, a foolproof way to get her phone number...etc... I'll also teach you exactly how to drop these "training wheels" so you develop real skill in conversation and presenting yourself with POWER. True power and choice with women comes when you OWN social skills, NOT when you've memorized zillions of "things to say" - that's just a step along the road to real mastery. LIFE skills are needed for relationships. Social Skills, although mandatory learning for every guy, are only a piece to a much larger picture. They are vehicles for conveying the INNER game. If you want to attract very beautiful and intelligent women, "lines" & "gimmicks" won't cut it - you have to BE THE MAN. That's why I focus on BOTH: Inner and Outer game.... The freedom I described to you earlier is only obtained when you aren't a prisoner to anything - not even a "line" or "gimmick". Nope, I am talking about true social and dating mastery here. I stopped nothing short of it, and now you don't need to either. Here is a quick look at some of the topics I will teach you:
There's a ton more, but as you read these remember - these are given to you with a PLAN behind them. What is the goal of that plan? MASTERY. My goal for you is to feel the power of choice and the freedom from anything unnatural and manipulative when dealing with women. When your momma said "Just Be Yourself"...well, she was RIGHT - only she didn't teach you HOW. The HOW is with INTELLIGENCE and POWER, and that's what I teach you in How To Get A Girlfriend. Empowering you with social skills and confidence is the only way for you to feel the freedom to be yourself and to be the most attractive and powerful version of yourself. Get that? That's a plan for mastery. Click This Link Now To Download Your Copy of How To Get A Girlfriend (All Orders Are Processed On A 100% Secure Server) Here Is More Of What You Will Learn:
I cover all of those topics and more in How To Get A Girlfriend. If you are the kind of guy who wants to naturally meet more women, who wants phone numbers of more women, who wants to date more women, who wants more options of VERY attractive women, who wants to feel more self-esteem and more confidence in life and in dating, and who eventually wants to meet a VERY special woman and attract her into a relationship...then How To Get A Girlfriend is THE book for you. On the other hand, if you are the sort of guy who has never had problems with women and dating, who has women approach you, call you and pursue you, who is already experiencing NATURAL success with VERY attractive women, who currently FEELS the power of CHOICE in your dating life, who currently has a very fulfilling, healthy relationship with a woman you FEEL massively attracted to...well, then this ebook is not for you. When I coach guys 1-on-1, I charge $750 for 6 hours...a downright bargain when you consider what I teach in person, but I realize that many guys can't fly to New York to work with me privately...that's why I've made How To Get A Girlfriend a TRUE steal when it comes to value vs. price. Even if I handed you ONE solid "first date" idea - that cost you under $20 (of which you will receive THREE in my ebook), you would easily save $80 from the average "dinner & a movie" $100 payout. And, let's say you averaged 1 date per month - that would be nearly $1000 saved in a year. The power of knowledge is priceless isn't it. Or, lets say you spent 3 years learning this stuff the "hard way" - which is about how long it would take you to get really good at this without my ebook...I bet you'd pay a pretty penny to have me remove about 90% of that learning time wouldn't you? Over two and half years could be saved, and it will only cost you $37 my friend. That's around $5 per skill. That's right - for $37 you can own How To Get A Girlfriend... PLUS if you read How To Get A Girlfriend and you aren't FULLY convinced that this e-book is the ultimate solution to your dating challenges, then you can have your $37 back AND you can keep the e-book. Hows that for confidence? If you're not fully satisfied, you can just zip me a quick email within 7 days of purchase and you'll get ALL your money back PLUS keep the product as my gift to you. That's what I call a FULL MONEY BACK GUARANTEE.
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